This One's for Barb

January has unfortunately been more eventful than I hoped. We have been back in the ER three times. On a positive note we are moving and shaking on the home front. An in home care team came to visit us. The doctor and nurse helped us set up Brent's medications, and will access his port, so I can give him fluids at home. They will provide ongoing support once a week until we can get him back on track. Among other things we also have a physical therapist coming to the house once a week to get him stronger. He's lost so much weight that he's become very weak.

Yesterday I made the decision to take time off of work and concentrate on Brent's nutrition. I believe it's the best decision for our family. It's going to be extremely hard to get him past this portion of his journey, but I believe it will happen. 

None of the above would have been possible without both our immediate families. Barb (Brent's mom) and I have become a united front. I thank my lucky stars for her on a daily basis. I have the best mother in law ever! We are determined to get Brent his freedom back. He needs to get back to work and our daily routine. I know how deeply it pains him to miss any of the boy's sporting events. Brent, the boys and I are so lucky that our village stands behind us 💯. That doesn't always happen. For that I am eternally grateful. 

For those of you that continue to ask how they can help, below is our GoFundMe. We love you Sarah for setting this up! Thanks to our amazing neighbors we have plenty of meals coming through February. Car washes are always welcomed 😁

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